First Instructions

A Simple Guide to Meditation for Beginners

Meditation is a practice of cultivating mindfulness, focus, and self-awareness. There are many forms of meditation, but here’s a simple guide to get you started with a basic mindfulness meditation.

Preparation

Find a quiet space

  • Choose a place with minimal distractions, where you feel comfortable and at ease

Decide on the duration

  • Start with a short duration (5-10 minutes) and gradually increase as you become more comfortable with the practice

Choose a comfortable posture

  • Sit on a cushion or chair with your back straight but relaxed
  • You can also meditate lying down or standing, depending on your preference

The Meditation Process

Step 1: Focus on your breath

  • Close your eyes gently or keep a soft gaze
  • Bring your attention to your breath, observing the sensation of air entering and leaving your nostrils or the rise and fall of your chest
  • If it helps, you can count your breaths (1 for inhale, 2 for exhale, up to 10, then start over)

Step 2: Notice and accept wandering thoughts

  • As you focus on your breath, you may notice your mind wandering to thoughts, feelings, or sensations
  • This is normal; simply acknowledge the distraction without judgment and gently bring your focus back to your breath

Step 3: Practice non-judgmental awareness

  • Throughout your meditation, maintain an attitude of non-judgmental awareness
  • Observe your thoughts and emotions as they arise, without getting attached to them or labeling them as good or bad

Step 4: Gently end the meditation

  • When the time you set for meditation is up, gently bring your awareness back to your surroundings
  • Take a few deep breaths and slowly open your eyes
  • Take a moment to appreciate the calm and clarity you’ve cultivated

Tips for a Successful Meditation Practice

  • Be patient: Meditation is a skill that takes time to develop; don’t be discouraged if your mind wanders or if you feel restless at first
  • Consistency is key: Try to meditate daily, even if it’s just for a few minutes
  • Experiment with different meditation techniques: There are many forms of meditation, and you may find that certain techniques resonate with you more than others

Remember that meditation is a personal practice, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. By dedicating time to cultivating mindfulness and self-awareness, you can experience numerous benefits, such as reduced stress, increased focus, and enhanced well-being.

Advanced Meditation Techniques: Going Deeper

Once you are comfortable with basic mindfulness meditation, you can explore more advanced techniques to deepen your practice. Here are some methods to help you go further in your meditation journey:

1. Body Scan Meditation

  • Enhance your awareness of bodily sensations
  • Start at your toes and slowly move your attention up through your body, all the way to the top of your head
  • Focus on each body part, noticing any sensations, tension, or relaxation, without judgment

2. Loving-Kindness Meditation (Metta)

  • Cultivate compassion and empathy for yourself and others
  • Silently repeat phrases such as “May I be happy, may I be healthy, may I be safe, may I be at ease”
  • Gradually expand your focus to include loved ones, acquaintances, and even those with whom you have conflicts

3. Object of Focus Meditation

  • Deepen your concentration by focusing on a specific object
  • This could be a physical object, a mental image, or a specific concept
  • Keep your attention on the chosen object, gently bringing your focus back to it whenever your mind wanders

4. Insight Meditation (Vipassana)

  • Develop a deeper understanding of the nature of reality
  • Observe your thoughts, feelings, and sensations without judgment, noticing their impermanence and interconnectedness
  • As your awareness deepens, you may gain insights into the nature of your own mind and the world around you

5. Chakra Meditation

  • Balance and harmonize your body’s energy centers
  • Focus on each of the seven chakras, visualizing their associated colors and qualities
  • Clear any blockages or imbalances by sending healing energy to each chakra

6. Mantra Meditation

  • Enhance your focus and awareness through the repetition of a sacred word or phrase
  • Choose a mantra that resonates with you, such as “Om” or “So Hum”
  • Silently repeat the mantra in your mind, allowing it to become a natural part of your breath

Tips for Deepening Your Meditation Practice

  • Create a regular schedule: Dedicate a specific time of day for meditation, making it a consistent part of your routine
  • Lengthen your sessions: Gradually increase the duration of your meditation practice, aiming for 30 minutes or more
  • Attend meditation retreats: Join a retreat to deepen your practice in a supportive, immersive environment
  • Find a meditation community or teacher: Seek guidance from experienced practitioners and learn from their insights and experiences

Remember, meditation is a personal and lifelong journey. Be patient with yourself as you explore these advanced techniques, and allow your practice to evolve and deepen over time. By consistently dedicating yourself to meditation, you can experience profound personal growth, self-awareness, and inner peace.

Early on

I have spent about 2.5 hours a day in meditation ever since I was a teenager. I traveled about the world to study in India, Japan and in monasteries of many types, including Vedanta (Hindu) , Buddhist, Sufi, Zen, Catholic and some other esoteric forms of Kabbalah and Sikh teachings.

Current

I have retired and dedicate my life to meditation, teaching and writing and counseling.